Dan knows what not to tell a person living with MS

After living with Multiple Sclerosis longer than I have lived without it, I know for certain that the disease will challenge me physically, mentally and emotionally.

People living with MS, like Dan and me, face plenty of struggles and tough times, yet our lives also are filled with special moments and accomplishments. For Dan and me, such high points were when we married each other, earned our graduate degrees or our continued writing and maintenance of this blog. 

While we have those bright spots, those of us in the MS community may also encounter some insensitive comments and face certain misconceptions about the disease. Insensitive comments such as “but you look so good!” or misconceptions concerning our future and walking, working or wheelchairs.

In Dan’s most recent post for the Multiple Sclerosis Foundation – Rethinking what not to tell a person with MS – he delves into those topics and stresses the importance of understanding and empathy. He reminds readers that words hold power, and while well-intentioned, certain statements can unknowingly undermine the experiences of us in the MS community. 

He also encourages us all to reflect on our interactions, cultivate a more compassionate approach, and remember that silence sometimes cuts deeper than even the most coldhearted of comments.

Through understanding and empathy, we can contribute to a world where individuals living with MS are not only supported but truly embraced for their strength and resilience.

Check out what Dan has to say and share your comments here to let us know how you handle such comments.

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