Learning and dancing the steps of caregiving together

A personal essay on caregiving, marriage, and living with MS — exploring the quiet dance partners learn through trust, love and daily practice.

A personal essay on caregiving, marriage, and living with MS — exploring the quiet dance partners learn through trust, love and daily practice.

I’ve realized after 25+ years living with Multiple Sclerosis that some of the hardest battles are the ones no one sees. And Jennifer and I both understand the challenges of managing the invisible symptoms of MS: fatigue, numbness, balance problems,…

Multiple Sclerosis has taken a lot from me over the past 25 years. I mean, I could’ve let that be the end of the story when it slowly stole essential things like feeling in my fingers and toes. But instead,…

“We have no choice in how MS will affect our lives, but we do have the ability to stay in the game and play the cards we are dealt. Sure, this can involve some bluffing and making it look easier…

Last week, Bruce Springsteen released his epic collection of previously unreleased songs, “Tracks II.” Listening to these recordings reminded me of how much his music has supported me through my journey life with Multiple Sclerosis and as Jennifer’s primary caregiver.…

Kudos to Wartburg College for exemplifying the leadership and adaptive change it taught and instilled in me as a graduate student these past 20 months. I was among the eight students enrolled in the third cohort of its online MA…

When I met Jennifer, I knew she was the one. But our story is about more than love at first sight. It’s also about the vital role of in-home caregivers and the difference they make in people’s lives every single…

Maybe we’re misunderstanding what Congress members mean when they justify their actions as “cutting wasteful spending” and “putting America first.” Because we still are confused about what they did on March 18. For background, we will tell you that through…

‘tis the season for year-end giving, but what if we started with ourselves? Whether it’s taking time to rest, connecting with supportive communities, or investing in activities that bring you joy, giving to yourself can be just as impactful as…

“Biting the kneecaps off multiple sclerosis never crossed my mind until Dan Campbell came to the Motor City.” I’ve always seen MS as my competition since I was diagnosed in 2000, and Detroit Lions Head Coach Campbell has added fuel…